How to Be Brave: A David and Goliath Lesson for Kids (With a Courage Song!)

"During my years of teaching and writing songs for kids, I've never come across a story that better shows what courage is than David and Goliath." We sing about it in my class because it's not just an ancient story; it's a lesson that will never go out of style about having faith, being brave, and standing up to giants, no matter how enormous they look. These "giants" aren't fighters for kids; they're the first day of school, a huge test, or a fight with a buddy. This story from the Bible gives them a strong way to deal with impossible odds. It shows that real strength comes from the heart, not the size of the body. And sometimes the best way to find that heart is to sing about it.

And what I love most is that children instantly connect with this story. It gives them a simple picture of bravery they can hold in their hands: a tiny kid standing tall in front of a giant. Even preschoolers understand that moment of “I feel small, but I can still try.”

Getting to know the "Giants" in Our Lives

In the story, Goliath was a real giant, a huge fighter who scared an entire army. For us, anything that seems enormous and dangerous might be a "giant." It could be a school bully, a difficult test, a scary doctor's appointment, or even a new sport you're afraid to try.

David's family were shepherds. He was just a boy with no armor or battle experience. But when he saw the giant, he didn't see an unbeatable monster; he saw a bully defying his God. This simple act of reframing the problem is the first step to bravery.

Helping children “name their giant” is often the biggest breakthrough. Once a child can say, “My giant is reading aloud in class,” the fear suddenly becomes something specific and manageable.

Pro-Tips for Facing Your Giant / How to Be Brave

1. Use What You Have

David didn't try to be a soldier. He rejected King Saul's heavy, unfamiliar armor. Instead, he used what he knew: a slingshot and five smooth stones from a stream.

This teaches kids an important truth: you don’t need to be older, bigger, or different to be strong. You are allowed to solve problems your way.

• Pro-Tip for Kids: You don't need to be someone else to be brave. If your giant is a school presentation, your "slingshot" might be practicing with your family or drawing pictures to help you remember the words. Use your own unique skills to tackle the problem.

2. Concentrate on Your Strengths, And Not Your Weaknesses

While everyone else was focused on Goliath's size, David was focused on his own strengths: his faith in God and his skill with a slingshot, which he'd used to protect his sheep from lions and bears.

• Pro-Tip for Parents: Help your child identify their strengths. Are they a good artist? A great listener? A kind friend? Remind them that these unique qualities can be powerful tools when facing a challenge.

Children build confidence faster when they can clearly name what they’re good at. Creating a simple “Strengths List” together can be a powerful nightly ritual.

3. Have faith in yourself (and in something bigger) 

David's courage came from his deep belief that God was on his side. This faith gave him the confidence to face a challenge no one else would. He was not alone.

Kids often think bravery means “not being scared.” Gently remind them that even brave people feel fear—David included. Courage is choosing what’s right, not feeling fearless.

• Pro-Tip for Educators: Help kids develop a growth mentality. Teach them that they can improve their skills by working hard and being dedicated. Tell them it's acceptable to be nervous, but they should believe in themselves and try.

  
  

4. Take the First Step

Standing on that battlefield, David took a brave first step. He walked toward Goliath, not away from him. It’s that first step—however small—that sets the victory in motion.

• Pro-Tip for Everyone: Don't wait until you're not scared anymore to act. Bravery isn't the absence of fear; it’s moving forward despite it. Take one small, manageable step toward your goal, and the next one will become easier.

Sometimes the first step is simply raising your hand, saying “I need help,” or whispering your fear out loud. Celebrate the step—not just the outcome.

The Victory Is Yours

Just like David’s victory, bravery isn't always about a dramatic ending. It's about having the guts to attempt, the faith to believe, and the smarts to use what you have. Remember David the next time you feel little next to a giant. You already have the bravery; you simply need to use it.

Additionally, it's always acceptable to contact a teacher, counselor, or pediatric expert if your child appears to have severe anxiety or overwhelming concerns. A supportive team can help kids build resilience with love and guidance.

P.S. Need more ways to teach big lessons? Explore our collection of Songs About Feelings and Courage to keep the learning and singing going!"

Let's sing it! A chant to give you courage to face giants

This is a simple, powerful chant we use to honor David's courage. Say that and clap your hands!

My giant’s big, but I am strong!

I’ll use my skills all day long!

I take a step, I’ll do what’s right!

My courage shines with all its might!

Pro Tip: Repeat this chant with your child before a challenging moment. It reframes their mindset and gives them a confident mantra.

You can even turn it into a rhythm game clap, tap, stomp to help children release nervous energy before facing their “giant.”